I like the article simply because it offers some good points that you wouldn't be able to state to your girlfriend without sounding like an asshole. The fact that it's written by a female is different as well. But something like this will never ever work unless you are fine with your girlfriend doing the same thing. If that's not OK with you, and I know that will never be OK with me, then it just won't work. As cliche as it is, you can't have your cake and eat it too. On the other hand, if you are OK with it, then what the hell are you doing in a relationship anyway? That's just my honest opinion (but I am always right).